Don’t be a Hopeful Side chick

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“Girl, he loves me. He’s attached to me more than I am to him”

“I am not worried about his wife, I’m just having fun!”

“I see him everyday. He spends more time with me than his wife.”

PSA Ladies. I mean side chicks, you can never win. First and foremost remember there’s a thing called Karma. God will never open up a door to a decent life to someone who is helping a man break up his home. Second, did you ever stop and wonder “Why am I a side chick?”. Why not be the girlfriend, wife? Why are you okay being a secret?

The best thing to do is run the other way if a married man tries to talk or “date” you. I’ve heard girls say “he spoils me so why not?” or my favorite “I didn’t make a commitment to his wife, he did.”

So here it is! If you as a woman are able to get a man to take care of you then you can get a single, rich man to do that. As far as the commitment goes, you’re right. You aren’t the one who made a commitment to his wife but out of respect for yourself and for his marriage it’s probably best to not get involved. If you’re smart enough then you won’t take this route. If you do, stay tuned. I have a bit more advice for you.

You are going to get hurt!!! You are going to invest your time and your feelings. You are going to become so hopeful that he’s going to be in your future plans. I don’t care what he says to you, there will be NO future. None. Only possible future for you two to continue to hide, continue to hang out in the car, continue to only see each other at weird hours, continue to only eat take out because he can’t be seen with you. As time goes on you will expect more and more from him. Your feelings will only get stronger so your expectations will start to change. He will feed you all types of lies or false hope. Oh, don’t forget, while you think he loves you he will more than likely have a few other side chicks like yourself. You will be livid when you find out because in your mind “you two have something special” LOL! I am sorry! Just stating facts here. Not to mention you won’t even bother dating anyone while you are messing with this married man because he’s conditioned you to view it as cheating. Yes! Cheating on a married man! Therefore you’re whole involvement will eventually be a waste of time but hopefully a lesson learned.

If you’ve never been a side chick but have thought about it, take notes. Don’t do it! You won’t win.

If you are a side chick, then honey, you need to leave before you are left. Even if you have taken him from his wife or feel like you can, keep a few things in mind. The same way he cheated on his wife with you, he can cheat on you with someone else. This will be a life long battle because you already know what he is capable of. Be very careful and mindful. Oh, don’t forget what they say. “Same way you got him is the same way you will lose him”.

Have any side-chick stories? Fill me in!

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